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the basics can be extraordinarily arousing when they’re said out of context or in a different situation.” For women like me who were teens and preteens in the late 1990s and early 2000s, that “different situation” was AIM (AOL Instant Messenger).
Katz told me AIM “was a way we learned to enact pleasure or demonstrate that we were feeling pleasure, even and especially if we weren’t.” At the same time we were using AIM, my best friends and I were also listening to NSync.
We planned Halloween costumes and epic homecoming sleepovers.
We talked about our eating disorders with a candor unavailable to us at the lunch table.
We were fans, but we made fun of one song: “Digital Get Down.” We thought it was “awkward” how NSync made a song about asking some girl to touch herself on a webcam.
Today, such requests seem tame compared to the sort of sexual coercion marking Harvey Weinstein and other sexual harassers.